- her doubts her fears tend to leave when she is in the presence of a man who has no judgement and is honestly himself
- be honestly yourself when you want her to be honestly herself
- being too nice is not attractive at all
- by expressing yourself fully, it can push people away
- but not expressing yourself fully, you do things that you don't want to do or that are way out of your energy
- when you start expressing what you want to express, respect comes your way, people start to want to be around with you, but you also push some people away
- be ok with the fact some people like you, some people don't like you
- learn to be fully yourself around people
- the nice, gentle etc, but also be able to stand up to women, have strenghts on the insight to walk away, to set boundaries, to say now
- accept that you wont be like by all people you meet
- be in peace with yourself
- love yourself more than the woman
- don't focus on the other person, shift the focus to yourself, be nice to yourself
- focus on purely what you want to express, not what she responds
